Being Truly Rich

Being Truly Rich

Was chatting with a friend the other day. Our conversations usually revolve around money, careers and retirement, savings and investments. No, he does not sell insurance! But he is business savvy and enterprising; I am amazed at how he is brave to embark on various moneymaking ventures… which turn out to be lucrative, mind you. And these are all perfectly legal, btw. ๐Ÿ˜›

Lately though he’s been feeling overwhelmed and is contemplating on retiring early.

“What is the measure of being rich?” he asked. I am amused at how our conversation suddenly took a philosophical turn.

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Ever Ever After at 5!

Can’t believe it’s been 5 years since I walked down the aisle, to marry the man of my dreams, or prayers rather! ๐Ÿ™‚

I’m having trouble uploading our wedding SDE, so I’ll just post the link.

Shot on the same day, 5 years ago. The exact same day of the week even–a Saturday. ๐Ÿ˜‰ I was up at 3 (!!!!) in the morning, for our 9 AM wedding. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ (We opted for a morning wedding coz we had several old people guests. ๐Ÿ˜€ ) I remember trying to sleep at 9 PM the night before (with great difficulty, as I am more a night owl than a morning lark!), and being awakened by a text from our wedding OTD coordinator that she was already at the door. ๐Ÿ˜› I don’t recall feeling rested, I can’t even remember falling asleep. But the adrenaline rush was more than enough to sustain me throughout the day. ๐Ÿ˜‰

I so luv our SDE! Took my cue from Ate Grace who also chose an upbeat song for her wedding SDE. Hindi tuloy nakakasawa panoorin kahit paulit-ulit! ๐Ÿ™‚ The first time I watched “Enchanted”, I already mentally bookmarked this song for future reference. ย I was still single at that time, but I already had a vision for my wedding. ๐Ÿ˜‰ย (“Balang araw, pag kinasal ako, gagamitin ko itong kantang ito…” ๐Ÿ˜›ย )ย It was also a good idea that Terci brought the Lego bride & groom minifigs ๐Ÿ‘ฐ ๐ŸŽฉ coz it injected some fun and personality to our video. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Buti pa itong youtube video ng kanta, pwedeng ma-embed sa post. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ Our wedding SDE is here.

The 2016 Year-End Survey

The 2016 Year-End Survey

What did you do in 2016 that youโ€™d never done before? Mag-Ninang sa kasal. ๐Ÿ˜›

Did you keep your new yearโ€™s resolutions, and will you make more for next year? I didn’t. Joined the “One Word” movement for the first time, with the word “Mindfulness.” I’m doing the same thing this year, with “Health” as my word for 2017. ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Did anyone close to youโ€ฆ
Get married?
My inaanaks. Hahaha! Monica & Al on Dec 10 (after 10 million years!). Ari & Diana – December 30 (Surprise! Surprise! ๐Ÿ˜› ).
Give birth? Maciang to baby Alriq. Joni to baby Joril. Crizelda to baby Nathan.
Passed away? A high school classmate’s baby who figured in a freak accident. Our high school Chem teacher. One of the waitresses from our suking carinderia, whose death from an apparent illness was very shocking! She was always cheerful and would even watch over Elmo while we ate at their store. She didn’t appear to be sick at that time. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

What would you like to have in 2017 that you lacked in 2016? Serenity

What date(s) from 2016 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? October 19–aftermath of Super Typhoon Lawin, and our anniversary.

What was your biggest achievement of the year? IDK, keeping the house clutter at bay. ๐Ÿ˜›

What was your biggest failure? Letting my emotions get the better of me ^_^;;

Did you suffer illness or injury? A lot! There’s the perpetual skin rash. And the flu which took me 2 weeks of convalescence. And allergic rhinitis & asthma attacks which occur on an almost monthly frequency. Hence my word for the year. ๐Ÿ˜‰

What was the best thing you bought? It’s not something recently purchased, but we acquired my childhood piano from my parents. It was bought 30 years ago and has slowly steadily fallen apart over the decades. Spent quite a sum in rehabilitating it, but I’m happy we got to salvage it. ๐Ÿ™‚

Whose behavior merited celebration? Therese who is still able to exude grace and peace, despite all the trials coming her way.

Where did most of your money go? House works pa den. The piano above.

What did you get really, really, really excited about? The piano. Christmas! My new iPhone.ย My X-Files charm bracelet. And The Heart and Brain comics.

What song(s) will always remind you of 2017? Pen apple pineapple ๐Ÿ˜›

Compared to this time last year, are youโ€ฆ
Happier or sadder? This “time of the year” is definitely happier than last year’s. But if I am to average this year’s “happiness” vs. last year’s, this year’s actually more negative in the scale. ๐Ÿ˜ฏ I’m not sadder. But I am more anxious and fearful. And very very tired.
Thinner or fatter? My clothes fit more comfortably now. But the weighing scale, mirror and pictures say otherwise. ๐Ÿ˜›
Richer or poorer? Richer in material things, poorer in spirit. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

What do you wish youโ€™d done more of? Sleep. Physical activity. Go out and explore the outdoors. Take pictures. Write/journal/blog. Count my blessings. Meditate.

What do you wish youโ€™d done less of? Eat. Worry. Get angry. ๐Ÿ˜  Idle Internet surfing.

How did you spend Christmas? It was a Sunday, a slow day. We mostly have work during Sundays and even holidays. But this Sunday was rare for us, in that we were able to observe the Sabbath as a day of rest. It was my “ideal” of a perfect Sunday, I actually cried that night (seriously! ๐Ÿ˜›). We had lunch at Rufino’s, in Paoay. Dinner at Saramsam. Gift-giving at home. Received a mechanical metronome from my husband and the Jim Kay-illustrated Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets.

Did you fall in love in 2017? Yes.๐Ÿ™‚

What was your favorite TV program? Mostly Disney Junior!

What was the best book you read? Only got to read a couple of books–Harry Potter and the Cursed Child, Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them (both the Hogwarts textbook and the movie screenplay)

What were your greatest musical discoveries? Rediscovering John Williams

How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2016? Round skirts. Sleeveless blouses. Whites. Black pumps.

What did you want and get? An iPhone, to replace my old 5-year old Blackberry which finally conked out on me. Not the fancy schmancy iPhone 7, but the more practical iPhone SE, which fits in the palm of my small hand, and is perfect for my purposes! The mechanical metronome which my husband gifted me for Christmas.

What did you want and not get? A slim and healthy body. ๐Ÿ˜›

What was your favorite film of this year?ย Only got to watch two, which I both loved. “Finding Dory” which hits me differently now that I am a parent. While kids might probably relate to Dory (and Nemo) whose search and rescue ended in success anyway, I now feel for Dory’s parents and Nemo’s dad. The thought of losing one’s child is frightening! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
I also enjoyed “Rogue One”. Most people found it dark, but IDK, I found it to be a ‘refreshing’ take on the Star Wars universe. Indeed, it puts the “War” in Star Wars. I find it a fitting tribute to the unsung heroes of war; not the captains and generals and Skywalkers, but the many nameless soldiers and warriors who bravely sacrifice, fight and dieย for a cause.

What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? 30++ We had dinner with a couple of friends.

What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? Serenity

What kept you sane?ย Only by God’s grace. I don’t know how I got through 2016. It’s been a veryย tryingย TIRING year! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? Elmo! ๐Ÿ˜Ž

What political issue stirred you the most? Philippine elections

Who did you miss?ย The Competitors! I’m not part of their group, but I am friends with them. ๐Ÿ˜‰ My HS barkada. And Tita Paula! ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Who was the best new person you met? Roanalaine! She’s not new. But I think we’ve bonded more this year. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2016.
“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:22-23 NIV)

Tagging Diane, Leah, Edelweisa, The Pseudoshrink,ย Renette, SAFM, SIU, theLittleDoramaGirl. And to anyone who wants to respond this survey, feel free to do so. Just link to this post to create a pingback so I could read yours.๐Ÿ˜‰

My Little Heart

My Little Heart

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Lookie what arrived in the mail during the weekend! Thank you so much Kuya C. for the Christmas present. Elmo was quick to claim it for himself; he calls it The Baby Heart Book. ๐Ÿ™‚

And in many ways, he is the “heart” to his parents’ “brain” personas–our *tangible* source of joy, hope and excitement in the otherwise bleak and boring world of “adulthood.” ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Thankful Tuesday

Thankful Tuesday

Just came back from a week-long trip in Manila. Attended a convention for 3 days, but we extended our stay to spend time with Elmo’s paternal side of the family.

Haven’t been out in a while, so it was a much needed vacation for me! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Anyway, it’s Thanksgiving Week. So allow me to just reflect on the things I am thankfulย for:

  • Opportunities for travel
  • Opportunities for learning
  • Rest & relaxation
  • Creature comforts
  • A placeย to call home
  • My wonderful husband
  • My sweet and darling son
  • Salvation
  • God’s provisions
  • God’s protection

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What do you know, it’s 10 bullets! Filing this too under “Top Ten Tuesdays” of The Broke and The Bookish.

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Our Own Little Walk of Fame

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Took this picture of Elmo’s footprints. I did mention in previous posts that we were having works done on the house, one of them was a covered walkway connecting the garage to the side door (which leads to the kitchen). As the workers were already paving the walkway, we requested that they allow Elmo to stamp his footprints on the cement while it was still wet. ๐Ÿ˜›

Would have wanted for handprints as well, but he was being fastidious at that time and didn’t want to get *dirty*. ๐Ÿ˜› He is pleased with the “finished product” though and would point to his foot prints, exclaiming “My feet!”

When he’s older, I intend to take a picture of his much bigger feet beside his tinyย footprints.